Beauty

“Everything is beautiful, in its own way”

“Almost heaven, West Virginia”

 

In our travels, we see a lot of country. As different as it may be, it is all beautiful. I’m not at all sure I agree that West Virginia is almost heaven, but it certainly is beautiful.

With all of the time that we spend in the Southwest, I couldn’t help comparing the hills and mountains there with the hills and mountains of the Northeast. The Southwest with its lack of water, leaves their crumbling volcanic mountains bare, and looking like old bones lying in the desert.

The Appalachian mountains are actually much older, but they have a heavy pelt of trees covering them so they look to be more fleshed out. In this part of the country, civilization strings itself along the streams and rivers. The mountains are mostly granite, so the streams cut straight down leaving narrow valleys. This makes for narrow little roads going through narrow little towns. Add a set of railroad tracks, and things get tight real fast.

Yesterday, I realized I was traveling north and south at the same time, all while headed in a westerly direction. That’s Virginia. I was traveling north on I 77, we then merged with I 81 in the southbound lane. If you look at the map, between Wytheville and mm 81 you see that it all runs east and west at that point.

Later, I was driving along through a narrow little valley and had the thought that gardening must be very easy here. You could plant a garden for instance, and because the ground is straight up and down you could pull weeds without ever bending over! That’s West Virginia.

 

We followed I 77 to I 64 and went west through Kentucky, down to the rolling hills covered with bluegrass and high dollar horses. It was startling to see the abrupt change from little homes clinging to the sides of mountains to huge mansions in the middle of wide open pasture.

We are now in St Louis, rumbling through the fog. The fog has the effect of muting colors so everything has the appearance of an old washed out photograph. I like it.

Yes, I think it is beautiful, in its own way.

 

Kevin

My Christmas wish

Merry Christmas!

I love Christmas. It started for me on Christmas Eve day, when Sherlene and I were walking down a dirty street in Charlotte NC. It was only two blocks from the truck stop to the BBQ shop we were heading to. In the time it took to walk down and back, we were hailed by two ladies; Merry Christmas!

I don’t know who they were, or where they might be going, but I do believe that any other time of year we might have only nodded at each other and said hello if we acknowledged each other at all.

That little incident put me in the spirit of Christmas.

Later that night as I was rolling through the hills of Tennessee I imagined all the children sleeping in the homes and burgs, and cities.  As I write this in the early morning of Christmas Day, I imagine them waking up, instantly, like turning on a light bulb, and running out to find their presents.

Traffic the last several days has been heavy with cars full of people and presents going to see family. It makes you drive a little more carefully. I hope today is filled with fun, and family, and food. I hope it is filled with giving, and smiles, and well wishes. That is what is meant when we wish each other “Merry Christmas!”

For just a few days every year we get to wish Christ on the world. I wish that for the next few days, there is more love and compassion in the world because of it.

I know it won’t last. I also know that even today bad things will happen. It’s the fallen world we live in. But there is hope. There is always hope, and His name is Jesus.

The wise men worshiped Him as “Savior”. Wise men still do.

There were forces at work in the world even then that would have wiped Him from the earth, and there are forces at work today, that would keep Him out of the “Holidays”.

The promise is that the world will get worse and worse as it turns away from Him, but the promise also states He will return.

With every passing day, I yearn more and more my Christmas wish for the world;

“Even so, come, Lord Jesus.”

Kevin

3000 Kisses

3000 Kisses

The other day, I got to thinking about how many kisses there are in a year.

Let’s see, there is a kiss good morning, and a kiss good night.

Because of what we do, we rarely get to sleep together, so you can multiply that by two.

(For the record, not a good deal)

So that is 4

Then I hope there is at least one “just because”.

Over the course of time, there are kisses of joy, and kisses through the tears. Don’t forget “I’m not mad anymore” kisses.

Oh! And lots of “I love you” kisses.

There may be more. I asked you, and you hoped there were “a million”.

Well, let’s just say there were at least 3000 over the past year.

We can shoot for a million next year!

Neighbors

“Odd you an awmidican seeteezen seer?”

I was ready for the question, but it was three AM, and the accent threw me.

“Excuse me?”

“Are you an American citizen sir?”

I looked down into his well fed face, topped with a stocking cap against the cold. I took in his army fatigue green uniform, the bulge around his middle, and his side arm.

A flood of retorts went through my mind, but thankfully what came out of my mouth was: “Yes Sir.”

He closed his eyes and with all the magnanimity of a third world bureaucrat, he waved me through. “Half a nize day seer.”

I was at a regular Border Patrol check point in Texas.  The entire countryside around me swarmed with Border Patrol agents, and their dogs. I couldn’t see it but I knew the airwaves around me crackled with voices on the radio, and hummed with high powered radar capable of tracking a human being from miles away. Even the earth itself was filled with motion detectors looking for the movement of people coming up from Mexico, Central, and South America.

The man that waved me through the check point could not have been long out of his country. The only difference between him and the people he was hunting was a piece of paper.

I don’t agree with the direction our country is headed regarding the “illegal immigrant” situation. I think it is based mainly on racism and hype, and very little is based on fact, let alone a Christian spirit.  

In my experience, Hispanics are very hard working, and would have no problem contributing their share of taxes, and Social Security if they are given that chance. They are very family oriented, they work long hours, and then spend their Sundays off in church, and with their families. Then, they send what they can to relatives back home.

The problem is they look different than us, they don’t sound like us, and they raise large families.

Hmm, they sound like Eastern Europeans of 100 years ago, and the Irish, and the Italians after them, and the Porto Ricans after them.  

I remember the first time I felt the cold roll of something wholly indigestible turning in the pit of my stomach. It was when I realized that something I was proud of; my country, and my U.S. Navy, was doing something that exposed the slimy underbelly of a policy run amuck.

We were in the Caribbean Sea, about 100 miles off the coast of Columbia. We were on a “Drug Interdiction” mission.

In actuality, it was harassment on the high seas. We stopped small ships, fishing boats, anybody that came up on our radar. Not because we had permission to do this from any government, but simply because we were manning a 250 foot warship with a 5” gun mount, and a harpoon missile system capable of launching a nuclear warhead 750 miles, and landing it on a dime. Plus, we were flying a United States flag at our mast head, so we must be right.

Right?

The moment I knew we were wrong was in the early morning hours, when we stopped a U.S. registered sailboat that was paralleling the coast. We hailed them by radio, and then sent 6 DEA agents over to search their boat. There were two men and a woman on board. They were forced to stand first in the cockpit, and then in the cabin while these agents tore their boat apart. They had no choices, they had no rights.

After they did not find anything they could charge them with, the agents left. In their debriefing, the discussion was about what they had done wrong that they had not found anything. The sailors were considered guilty, even after they were proven innocent.

My part in all this was holding a search light on the sailboat. I found myself getting physically ill, so I handed it off to someone that was only too willing to be a part of something they thought was a great idea.

When I see check points in the desert, and walls going up along our southern border, I know a boondoggle when I see one.

When I see people get yanked out of their cars and stood alongside the road with their wrists bound with zip strips because of the color of their skin, and the fact that they didn’t have that all important piece of paper, my stomach begins that now familiar roll of nausea.

In my opinion, as long as the United States enjoys a standard of living that is far and above that of our neighbors, we will always have an immigrant problem.

I am a big fan of our standard of living, so I recommend doing everything we can to help our neighbor. We spend billions of dollars on border patrol, and now building a wall. What would be wrong with building some infrastructure, hospitals, schools, etc.?

In any case, the harassment on the high seas program never did work, and the wall across the border program won’t work any better than it did for China or Russia.

Perhaps most disturbing is what all of this says about our Christian spirit.

My Bible tells me how to treat the “aliens” among us. It also tells me how to treat the “neighbor” that I find in the ditch.

Trussing him up like a turkey, and sending him back home is not what I read.

Agree? Disagree? Leave a comment, or send me and e-mail.

Thanks Giving

Thanksgiving Day for me, had it’s ghosts. On a Thanksgiving Day in years past, events occurred, scarring this usually wonderful holiday with unfortunate memories. Until…

Thanksgiving 2001 – My friend, Linda, knew I was depressed. I had just been through a divorce and felt life was over. I looked at it from every angle and came to the conclusion… “yep – it’s pretty bleak”. Linda and I talked on “chat” nearly every night and she suggested I come out to Council Bluffs for Thanksgiving.

So in spite of myself, I took her up on it. I flew in Thursday night (cheapest fares) and it was the start to a wonderful weekend! Friday night, they had invited over a bunch of people and we played games, ate and talked… had lots of fun. Later in the evening, Linda got on her computer and discovered her friend Kevin was online and asked if he wanted to come up and join us. As it turned out, it wasn’t Kevin but his friend Johnny who was over visiting him and using his computer. Johnny declined but Kevin decided to come up. :-) THAT, was when we met! It was a trend to forever change the Thanksgivings of my life!

Thanksgiving 2004 – Let me back up… earlier the summer before, I received an email that would change my life! It started, “Hi, you don’t know me, but I am…” It was an email from a daughter I had given birth to when I was 20 and had relinquished to adoption. She was nearly 22 and for long years I had hoped for and anticipated an email like this. Never did I realized the wonder, the gift her presence in my life would bring.

We met for the very first time on U.S. Thanksgiving 2004. This would be another trend that would forever change Thanksgiving day for me! I say U.S. Thanksgiving because Cathi is actually Canadian. Her parents, Ron and Fran Delaney live in Vanderhoof, B.C. which is an hour west of Prince George. Their Thanksgiving is in October.

Thanksgiving 2005 – I flew up over U.S. Thanksgiving and spent 5 lovely days in a very cooooooold Vanderhoof. Only my 2nd time to Canada…. the first was when I was 17 and it was summertime!

Thanksgiving 2007 – Cathi flew down for 8 days and we had a great time! For the first time we had all of our kids together. We celebrated Thanksgiving at Kevin’s folks and all the family was there. Cathi discovered a whole new family here in Council bluffs and we all welcomed her with open arms!

Here are some of the scenes from this last greatest holiday of Thanks.

Cathi flew in tuesday night before Thanksgiving…

Upon ArrivalSilly Airport Picture

Wednesday night we went to Sears for pictures and then to dinner at the Spaghetti Warehouse in downtown Omaha.

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Thanksgiving Day! Grandpa Bob had Cathi light the candles (as the guest of honor). Nick read from a letter written by Abraham Lincoln addressing the nation. It was a wonderful meal Mary prepared and a bunch of us added to and we all ate good and plenty!

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The day after Thanksgiving… Although we had good intentions of getting up at 5a.m. and doing the crazy day after shopping spree, we had stayed up late the night before so didn’t pile out of bed until after 8. We went shopping and had barrells of fun!

Shoe ShoppingApple StoreCaught ShoppingGirls gone wild!

We had Christmas out at Matt & Dana’s and I managed not to take one picture while we were there! Prior to going out Cathi was playing Santa and busy wrapping presents. Here are some random pictures I picked out to share… enjoy!

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Sunday we had a potluck with the Eichers and a few of our closest friends. This was the only group picture I got from the whole thing and it shows about half of the people there.

Eichers & Friends Potluck Sunday

The day of departure arrived and Cathi was fairly organized… We got her to the airport at some obnoxious hour of the morning and yes… there were people awake and alert to fly planes and stuff!

Last Morning

We had a great time Cathi… can’t wait until you return! Bring your family with you next time!

At the Airport Again

Thanks for sharing in this mini picto-gram of our Thanks Giving. Thanksgiving will ever be a day of thankfulness!

Sherlene

Tired

Today may have to be one of those days when I tell you where we are, and where we are going, and let it go at that.

We are in L.A. on the 210, headed east. It is 0900 and traffic stinks. Plus, it is pouring rain. I-5 was moving about 15-20 miles per hour, but things are going better now.

Sherlene is driving.

She hates it when I tell her that this traffic “brings out the Wayne in her.” Those of you that know her dad will need no explanation.

Sherlene and I are running a little short on sleep right now.

On Sunday, we came across I-70 going east across Utah and Colorado. Because we did not have a load in Denver, I drove the entire distance and Sherlene stayed up so we could both see the beautiful scenery.

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We were assured there were no loads for us until Monday morning, so we planned on sleeping all night, and getting an early start next morning.

Wrong!

We had a nice dinner at the truck stop, took showers, and did a little laundry. (Anyone needing to know how to get heavy 5th wheel grease out of a brand new jacket, ask Sherlene.) About 10:30 we went to bed, expecting to get up about 0630.

Once again, Wrong!

I didn’t even get the covers over me, when the Qualcom (Satellite communications) went off. We were to proceed ASAP to Albuquerque NM to pick up a load from a driver that couldn’t complete the rather tight run to Kettleman City CA.

I was tired, but I was in better shape than Sherlene, who had driven late the night before, and then got up early to see the sights.

So… (DOT inspectors please stop reading.) I drove the 450 miles to Albuquerque through the middle of the night.

I do get tired sometimes, but I have never, ever come close to falling asleep. I didn’t this time either.

Last night, after we dropped this load, I hoped to get a couple hours extra sleep, but, one more time, wrong!

We are on our way to Abilene TX. We discovered too late that it would have been faster, shorter, easier, etc. to go east at Bakersfield instead of through L.A.

That’s what we get for following the companies directions.

I’d better go to bed, I’m starting to break my number one rule:

No Whining

Kevin

Ghosts

Well, the Lord giveth, and Conway taketh away!

In yesterdays blog, I made the fatal mistake of assuming that just because we had been assigned a load, and it was a good load, (2500 miles) we would actually be dispatched on it.

Not so in this business.

We lost that load before we ever got unloaded in Sacramento.

They still had us picking up in L.A., but now we were headed to Houston TX. (1500 miles) Then, I was headed to L.A., when they called and told me we were now going back to Henderson CO where we were yesterday morning. (988 miles) Sigh.

The worst part is that I can’t even complain because I just bragged yesterday about how pious I am about my financial situation. Sigh.

Ah well, could be worse.

Yesterday, we were coming down the long canyon into Salt Lake City. Each time I make that trip I think about the Mormons trudging along, pulling their hand carts. After a thousand miles of hot plains, wide rivers, and high deserts they would have known they were close. I can only imagine their emotions when they rounded the last bend and stared at the huge valley stretched out across the Great Salt Lake all the way to the Cedar Mountains almost 80 miles away.

I will say this; they got a beautiful state, and there is a lot of it that still is.

What brought it all home for me was traveling across the entire state of Wyoming in a single morning, admiring the snow, and pulling into Salt Lake that same day, I remembered the story of a three groups of Mormons that left Council Bluffs in August, several months after they should have.

Two groups made it to Wyoming before the blizzards hit, the third was still in Nebraska. Most of the very old, and the very young didn’t make it.

I think about things like that a lot out here on the road.

I pass by strip malls and industrial complexes in Ohio, and I think about the vast stretches of hardwood forests that the first settlers encountered.

Earlier this week I was in Eastern Oklahoma, which used to be called “The Nations” where many of the displaced Indian tribes, (Some as far away as Florida) were told they could live in peace for ever. Or at least until the Oklahoma land rush took it all back.

I love to stop the truck alongside the road in what is left of the grasslands of Kansas. I fill my lungs with air, and scan the horizon for Pawnee, or Arapaho, or even a buffalo.

This country is full of ghosts for me; slaves and share croppers in the south, Revolutionary and Civil War soldiers in the east, Cowboys in the west, and Indians everywhere. Both coasts ring with the sea shanties of the old sailors.

It’s kind of bittersweet to me. I love to see the places, but they fall so short of what history tells me they once were.

We are climbing up through the high desert of California now. Interestingly, this land wasn’t populated by much of anything 200 years ago. Early explorers found tribes of poor Indians they called “Diggers” that were gone by the time of the gold rush.

We are going to time our trip so we can catch the sunrise in Utah.

And yes, I’ll be looking for signs of the Ute Indians that used to own this place.

Kevin

Evanston WY

Wyoming is beautiful this time of year.

The sun is shining and the snow is crisp and white as fresh linen. All of the red rock formations are outlined by horizontal and vertical lines of white, crisscrossing and then blending into the dark sage brush and trees.

We left Denver Colorado at 0400 this morning. I drove.

It snowed a little in the night, but the roads were decent to good.

We are loaded exceptionally light: 8000 lbs, so I was able to climb up and down the passes without slowing too much, and my dash board says I still averaged 7.5 MPG.

We will be back in Sacramento CA by midnight tonight.

The Lord is wonderful!

Sherlene and I set up our monthly budget, and then we look for the miles that will fund it.

This month, we took some time off at home, and when we came back out, things seemed pretty slow, and we weren’t going to make budget.

Then, on the last possible day, our onboard computer chirped, and we were given a load from Los Angeles to Orlando FL.

We needed 14800 miles this two week pay period, and that run will give us 14830.

Sherlene and I have given our finances up to God long ago, we do the best we can to honor Him with what He gives us, but neither one of us is going to worry too much about how much that is. It is amazing how much He blesses us, especially since we started treating it like it was all His.

All for now, we are in Utah, and the snow is deeper, the hills are steeper, and there are more trees.

I have to go look out the window, and talk to my honey before I go to bed.

Kevin

Sacramento CA

Hey everybody!

 

I am going to try posting a short note every couple of days rather than trying to write an epistle before I post. I am inspired by all of these wonderful blogs by Diana, Ris, and Amy B.

Many of you won’t know Amy, but if you ever meet her, it will be as if you have known her all your life. I met her and her wonderful family years ago back when I lived in Centerville IA. (When the world was young) In the mean time click on the link to her blog, she is a wonderful writer, and a very good photographer as well.

 

AS I was saying! I am inspired by you folks, and I would love to emulate you, but it just don’t seem to happen. A really good post is a lot of time and work, and I just can’t do it.

Sherlene agrees.

Perhaps I can interest you in some of my day to day “hapnins”, I will start with.. yesterday!

 

We dropped our load in Sacramento CA on Sunday morning after escaping the ice storms in the Midwest completely. From there, we went to the 49er truck stop and ate a late breakfast. We didn’t expect to get a load until Monday morning, so we were both looking forward to a day off.

Sherlene took a short nap, then began generating e-mails, and converting our blog site over to wordpress.

I got out my can of paste wax, and waxed the truck! That was a lot of work, and I am sore today. But, the truck looks good. (I say it’s faster too) I was in bed by 8:30 CS, and Sherlene wasn’t long after.

At 0400, our Qualcom chirped, and we got a load from Fresno to West Memphis AR.

Just like that, we took off this morning, picked up our load, and we are off. We checked the weather along the route, and I think we will miss all the craziness.

We are crossing Tehachapi Pass right now on Hwy 58 in CA, headed east.

I will start driving at the AZ border. Sherlene will take over in Santa Rosa NM, and I will finish up the run from Fort Smith AR to W. Memphis.

Happy Trails!